Billy Crystal · His friend of forty-two years

Muhammad Ali

A comedian eulogizing perhaps the most famous athlete of the century, to a full arena and a live broadcast. He spends a good part of it doing an impression of Ali, and still says the truest thing anyone said that day.

Year
2016
Where
Louisville, Kentucky
Full text
Under copyright
“He was a tremendous bolt of lightning created by Mother Nature out of thin air.”
Billy Crystal, 2016

Why it works

  1. It is funny, and that is the respect

    He does the voice. He tells stories only a close friend could tell, and he gets an arena laughing at a memorial service. Refusing to be funny about a funny person is not dignity. It gives the room someone they would not recognize.

  2. He speaks from one friendship, not from the record

    Everybody watching already knew the titles, the exile and the comeback. What only Crystal had was forty-two years of private friendship with the public man, so that is what the speech is made of. Your material is what only you knew about them.

  3. It is built for the room

    Short lines, long pauses and laughs placed where the room needs to breathe. The speech works for an arena and a broadcast at the same time, with enough space for both the laughter and the grief.

Use this in your own

If they were funny, be funny. The room came to recognize them, and a eulogy that refuses to laugh describes somebody else.

Whoever they were to you, they deserve better than the first thing you think of at two in the morning.

Write a eulogy

In your own voice and at your own pace.